Sunday, September 15, 2013

THE SECRET OF A GOOD PERSONALITY

Charming personality would like to possess by everyone. Charm may be defined as elegant and balance in the way of talking, behavior and body movement of a person. Simple rules of social behavior can help a lot to gain a good personality.

First don’t be so quick make the habit to move slowly. Jerky motion should be avoided. A critic who analyzed charm of Greta Garbo one of Hollywood’s most impressive and adored artist came to the conclusion that she did everything slowly, with sense of poise that greatly enhanced her charm.

Secondly, during speaking with anyone, do not be too hurry. Before answering a question or giving any suggestion or making any comment takes a little break. This is the secret behind once reputation of being a very sagacious person. Before talking to any one you should calm down, smile, take a little break and then spoke. Don’t make hurry to speak. This technique is very important and always helpful in improving once personality.

Art of conversation is another vital factor which affects one’s social charm. Talk less and listen more is simple and easy rule to become a good conversationalist. For some people this rule hardly satisfies them. This point can be clarified by some more rules.

To talk interestingly, you have to talk about things that people likes. This can be acquiring by listing and observing. Therefore you talk better, if you listen more and talk less.

If you want to carry on a conversation but you don’t have matter than few interesting subjects should be at your finger tips. Movies and T.V serials are one of them. Games, hobbies and occupation are some other topic to move on with. But you should not argue with anyone while talking with someone on any topic, this might put a stray mark on his personality. Other’s views should also be respected.

Respect of elders is the golden rule of personality development.

Safety First In Online Dating

Online Dating is a real Fun. But you must know some facts that there are some security measures as well while hooking up with your mate. I have written some Tips that can be very helpful for you. Read On...
*Protection for Your PC First!
You must be very careful while searching for an online date. Most of the viruses and Trojans attack your PC from these dating sites. First of all you need a Firewall for your computer and then you need an anti-virus that can detect viruses from e-mails and websites. There are plenty on net but if you want some great products free than I tell you what to choose. Choices Below:
You Can Download Free:-
Firewall @ Zone Alarm www.zonelabs.com
Anti-Virus @ AVG Anti-Virus www.grisoft.com
*Look After for Yourself
You must be very careful for about yourself to while searching and hooking online dates. How? You can start asking some of your friend, your neighbors, your co-workers and to everyone else who you think have tried online dating. Take a look on the places they recommended you. When you find the some places that you think are best than first take a look on their URL, their fees, their service reviews by users, their rules and terms and save their complete contact information. Compare the info to other sites. Choose the One which you think is better and secure! And then go for it.
These are the two main Precautions that you must follow when looking for a date online!

Precautions taken by the womeni¦üs while dating online

Online dating sites are full of sexually predators and other online criminals therefore  
Women while dating with men online must take some precautions. The mistakes done by her may leads to sudden change in relationship with a man. Unexpectedly they may improve the relationship or may even lead to break up.

First point of consideration is that don’t ever lie. Yeah! It is true that some lies may improve the relationship but they may catch very soon and they obviously result in sourness in relationship. Majority of women lie about their martial status, and lie about age is most common which can be seen in any women’s profile. Suppose a man is attracted by you by your age and he wants a lady of age that you have mentioned in your profile if your closeness increases and on face to face meeting or by any other means when he come to know your real age he definitely takes break up from you and finally leads to nothing except a broken heart. So it is rightly said by someone that honesty is the best policy.

Another most important point of consideration during online chatting is that during online chatting with a man don’t ever tell your true life story to him until and unless you make sure that he is really attracted by you and you can trust him. Don’t give him your personal details like address and phone number.

If you are really have some financial problems then don’t ever try to disclose such problems to you online partner because he may think that you are doing drama of being a financial needy girl and rob him. And therefore he would prefer to take cut off from you and finally your relationship will be broken.

It is said that ‘slow and steady will win the race’. Don’t be so hurry plays it slow. Go slowly and keep asking personal question from man one by one. Before asking such questions to man it is really very necessary to won his faith if you ask such question directly in a very less period of time than it my cause failure of your aim.


Precautions taken by men during online dating

Mostly majority of the men think that online dating is easy, yes it is easy but if few precautions are not taken by you that it may be harmful to you. Mostly is online dating safe for women is the main matter of concern but it does not mean that online dating is completely safe for men. Men should also be alert.

Such few precautions are: -

1. The most common point is this, that you don’t give your personal information to anybody or any stranger. If any stranger wants your personal information avoid him/her. They may use your personal information in any wrong thing that may not be in your favor. Men should tell everything correctly when he will make sure those women with the chat is safe.

2. Always avoiding chatting which those women who first talk to you smoothly and them show themselves financially needy. This is possible that they may ask some money from you and may rob you. Online dating sites are full of such women who trap men in their net and rob them.

3. Care should be taken if any girl give you her contact number like telephone but she had never called you from that number than first make sure that number belongs to her by asking her to give a miss call or make a call from that number. This makes sure that number belongs to her.

Online dating steps for men

Online dating is not a tough thing, it is very easy. You can find thousands of a woman who are eager to join your company and who wants to be your friend. There are few steps, which made you to understand how one can go for easy online dating.

Steps of online dating for men

1. First of all you need a good computer having frequent speed and good Internet connection. The computer and internet connection should be of superior quality because the processing done by computer during opening and closing of site or for any other work is largely depend on the speed of internet. Internet connection should be both time and money saving.

2. As Internet consists of large number of dating sites, which offers you a vast variety of tools and functions including voice and video conferencing therefore search for the various online dating, sites and select the site that suits you. Some of the paid sites are also available which are much superior than free sites and have the money back guarantee therefore you can also go through them, some of them are very cheap that it will not affect your pocket.

3. Now register yourself in the online dating site and make an attractive, cool but honest profile that must also have your dashing photograph.
As the photograph is the most important part of the profile therefore your photograph should be cool and attractive.

4. Go through the profile of women and start contacting those whose profiles you find interesting. Don’t forget to answers those women who want to contact you.

5. Keep contacting them and if you due to any reason in future you can’t contact them then don’t forget to tell them that you are off for some days due to that reason. If you don’t do so then they might think that you don’t want to contact them.


As friendship is the first step towards the love and affection therefore if you like any women then it is better for you not to propose the women directly without knowing her.

Method of writing an attractive profile n¦â for women

Method of writing an attractive profile – for women

Profile is very important part of online dating. Any individual who wants you to add as a friend first goes to your profile and by reading your profile he tried to judge you and decide the qualities that he wants in his/her mate is possessed by you or not. So that’s why an attractive profile is of a great importance.

First of all you need to do is to join one or more than one online dating service.  While writing a profile you must be honest. Recall your past relationship and make the list of things that you like or not. Mention all the things in your profile though which you are attracted or the things you dislike this let you to find the right partner of your match. If you don’t like pets then mention it in your profile because you don’t want a guy who is attracted by pets. Therefore such qualities should be mentioned in an ideal profile.

Mentions your qualities as well as your specialties that make you unique in your profile. Good qualities attract a person very soon. If you have a deep interest in science than you really don’t want a partner who hate science. Similarly if you are a good artist than you want a partner who appreciate and understand your art not the guy who does not knew the meaning of art.

The most important part of profile is photograph. Good photographs generally attract men. First of all you need to do is to hire a good photographer and such photographers who are specialized in dating photographs are easily available. These photographers can also be hired from any of the online dating sites.

Method of writing an attractive profile

Method of writing an attractive profile – for women

Profile is very important part of online dating. Any individual who wants you to add as a friend first goes to your profile and by reading your profile he tried to judge you and decide the qualities that he wants in his/her mate is possessed by you or not. So that’s why an attractive profile is of a great importance.

First of all you need to do is to join one or more than one online dating service.  While writing a profile you must be honest. Recall your past relationship and make the list of things that you like or not. Mention all the things in your profile though which you are attracted or the things you dislike this let you to find the right partner of your match. If you don’t like pets then mention it in your profile because you don’t want a guy who is attracted by pets. Therefore such qualities should be mentioned in an ideal profile.

Mentions your qualities as well as your specialties that make you unique in your profile. Good qualities attract a person very soon. If you have a deep interest in science than you really don’t want a partner who hate science. Similarly if you are a good artist than you want a partner who appreciate and understand your art not the guy who does not knew the meaning of art.

The most important part of profile is photograph. Good photographs generally attract men. First of all you need to do is to hire a good photographer and such photographers who are specialized in dating photographs are easily available. These photographers can also be hired from any of the online dating sites.